When you have a healthy relationship with food, it is a balance of moderation and variation, not deprivation. It's about getting in touch with your body and hunger signals in order to feed your appetite not your emotions.
Choose where you want to start and pick one thing to work on. It can be as small as swapping a piece of CRAP for a healthier choice. Keep it simple.
Break the diet cycle of restricting, fasting, cleansing and bingeing. You have to find the motivation and discipline to stop this pattern. It has nothing to do with willpower. You have to want to live a healthy lifestyle.
Stop eating CRAP. Chemicals. Refined sugars. Additives. Preservatives.
After years of ingesting copious amounts of CRAP, I finally changed my diet and eating habits. It started with reading books on farming, nutrition and health. I stopped pouring a bottle of salad dressing on my salads and learned how to eat a wide variety of foods. Stop making excuses and start creating healthy habits.